Recover femininity

Escape from the equality mind-prison

“Equality is not the deepest thing” ~ C. S. Lewis, That Hideous Strength

This week I have in mind to touch lightly on some aspects of femininity.

The well of this discussion has been poisoned by the ideology of relentless pursuit of equality, by men failing in chivalry, and by a thought-stopping, one-size-fits-all image of what it must be. There’s more than a dash of Eve in the Garden, too, where we just don’t want to listen. It’s hard to talk about this topic without appearing to take sides in a futile conflict: either reject the concept entirely or subscribe to one narrow version of it.

But I have to talk about it!

The housewife (and the religious sister too, I could add, though such an interjection would constitute too much of a digression from our theme) has in mind and is, as every person is, responsible for, preserving the whole scope of human existence, which includes radiating the goodness of how God made us, male and female.

Men should be masculine, including outwardly. Women should be feminine — yes, outwardly. The one inspires the other. We need to get back to a point where we are delighting each other in this specific way!

There are broad principles but the particulars are many-splendored!

Today let’s just ask ourselves, we women: “Do I act and appear as feminine as I personally can?”

Femininity is a good thing, a perfection. “Do I believe this?”

As I Was Going Up Pippen Hill by J.E. Rogers

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